The one thing that I have noticed with a bipolar ManChild, is the main differences with the manic vs depression mood swings.
When the ManChild is depressed, he is pretty much easy going, non-argumentative, laid-back with a k-sir-rah attitude (when taking the proper doses of meds that is). Otherwise, he would be sleeping most of the time and pretty much non-existing.
But when the ManChild is manic, he becomes a major know-it-all, full of over zealous confidence, argues about everything, you can't have a conversation with them because they never let you finish your sentences because they anticipate what you are going to say (basically they can have a conversation all by themselves!) and just generally very difficult to live with and be around. (Thank God for meds that helps to ease some of this when taken properly).
Conclusion for the caregiver... Turn your worries and concerns into prayers!!! Because that is basically all you have left!!!
Living with someone who has bipolar is hard. It helps to know that you are not alone. It has helped me to look for the humor in it. Not to make fun, but to see that it is the disease controlling their thoughts and actions. My hope is that my humorous quips bring you some giggles, to help get us out of that dark and alone space one can often find ourselves in, to vent my angst, and hopefully provide each other some loving support. Feel free to share with me some of your fun stories too!
Friday, March 15, 2013
Friday, March 1, 2013
With the Return of MANIA
With a Bipolar ManChild, the return of mania is the most difficult to live with.
It involves:
1. The constant interruption,
always anticipating what you are going to say before you even say it!
2. The poor lack of judgment and
easily swayed by get-rich-schemes.
3. The excess energy with no
ambition to do anything that is important, but only to have fun.
4. The lack of sleep. Going from
8-9 hours of sleep per night, to 4-5. Not to mention, keeping you from getting
your sleep too!
5. Racing around to do
everything, but getting nothing done.
6. Wanting to befriend anyone and
everyone, not realizing they may not want anything to do with him.
7. Wanting to spend money he
doesn’t have.
8. Becomes a major know-it-all.
9. Thinks very highly of himself.
Super man with super ego.
10. Over confident, with poor
lack of judgment.
11. Indecisive. They want, want,
want, but can't make a decision. Also known as Double-Minded.
12. Makes promises they never
have any intention of keeping.
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